Whether you were expecting your partner’s support or have been struggling in your relationship, not having him in your corner can feel like a heavy blow. This lack of support can also make your next steps seem shaky.
This is a challenging situation, and you shouldn’t have to navigate a pregnancy alone. Avenues Clinic provides the support and resources to feel confident in yourself and determine what’s next.
Schedule a no-cost appointment to learn more, or keep reading to identify ways to keep moving forward and find the help you deserve.
Reflect on Your Relationship
Think back to telling him you were pregnant. Did he have strong emotions initially, or was he unsupportive later on? Your partner may need additional time to process the news, and his reactions are based on fear, not his true feelings.
However, if your partner is unwilling to discuss the pregnancy further, has ignored your attempts to address it, or is distancing himself from you, it’s time to take a step back and remind yourself of what you deserve.
If your partner will not support you during this time, consider who else you can lean on. Though the relationship dynamics will differ, they can provide guidance and a listening ear. Some possible options include a family member, friend, or counselor.
Lastly, if your partner has threatened or abused you in any way, remember that nothing you say or do justifies those actions. You deserve safety and protection, and the National Domestic Violence Hotline provides 24/7 support to help you find just that.
Gather Needed Resources and Information
Though you likely feel many emotions from your partner’s lack of support, you must prioritize your well-being. Avenues Clinic will help you sort through those feelings and offer the help you need.
We provide complimentary, limited ultrasound scans following a positive pregnancy test with us. This scan will confirm your pregnancy and help you feel more reassured of your next steps. We’ll also discuss your options so you can make a confident decision. You have support for however long you need.
Schedule a confidential appointment today. You have a place here, and your situation matters.